What happens in temples?
Sister H: This little blurb on lds.org briefly explains the ordinances that are performed in the temple. Outside of the temple, we do not discuss these ordinances in more detail than that. They're not a secret, but they are very, very sacred. If you want to read about the different rooms inside of the temple, go here.
How can I prepare to receive temple ordinances?
Sister H: Don't miss an opportunity to attend the temple to perform proxy baptisms! The more time you spend in the temple, the more you will love and cherish the temple. I guarantee it. Also, live your life so that you're always worthy to enter the House of the Lord - obey the Word of Wisdom and the Law of Chastity, pay your tithing, and gain a testimony of Jesus Christ, Joseph Smith, and our current prophet and apostles. You may want to ask your family members or the Bishop for tips on being temple-ready.
When I get married, who will be able to attend my temple sealing?
Sister H: I recommend reading The Holy Temple by Boyd K. Packer. You'll find the answer to your question under the section "Worthy to Enter."
How can I explain the importance of temple sealing to family members who will not be able to enter the temple with me?
Sister H: Here's what lds.org says in the Temple FAQ section...
"This can be a tender subject. Since the temple is the house of the Lord, dedicated to Him, those who enter must hold a current temple recommend, which certifies that they are living by the standards He has set. However, those who do not have a current temple recommend are welcome on temple grounds, and most temples have a room where they can wait while family members are being sealed. A couple with family members who cannot enter the temple may invite their bishop or another Church member to stay with them in the waiting room. A couple may also arrange with their bishop to hold a special meeting afterward for relatives and friends who do not have a recommend. This meeting provides an opportunity for them to feel included and to learn about eternal marriage. Although no ceremony is performed and no vows are exchanged, rings may be exchanged at such a meeting."
The best thing that you can do is pray for the Spirit to help you say the right thing. Then, sit down with your family member and bear your testimony as you feel prompted. Follow up with tons of love, and reassure your family member that he/she will still be an integral part of your special day. Make sure to give that family member plenty of attention!
We have been taught that marriage is an essential part of the Creator's plan. What if I am not able to get married during my lifetime?
Sister H: I found a wonderful quote from President Gordon B. Hinckley to address your concern.
"Because you do not happen to be married does not make you essentially different from others. All of us are very much alike in appearance and emotional responses, in our capacity to think, to reason, to be miserable, to be happy, to love and be loved. You are just as important as any others in the scheme of our Father in Heaven, and under His mercy no blessing to which you otherwise might be entitled will forever be withheld from you."
Still have questions?
Sister H: Check out lds.org, open your scriptures, pray, ask your family members, or ask your church leaders... You may even have your question answered during General Conference next week!
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